It seems I can’t go about my life for more than 48 hour spurts without some ignorant ass behavior stopping me in my tracks. You know, often Black folks will say that one should ‘mind their business’ and ‘it’s a free county’..which it is. And that’s why I think I am absolutely free to use today to air some folks out!

Tell Um Why You Mad, Son?














I’ll tell you what has me pissed. What has me pissed is that the average American has lost all class. I’m not talking about neglect to behave in a certain way because of religion. I’m not talking about being ‘elitist’ or acting ‘better than’ another racial group. I’m talking about plain old, good fashioned ‘giving a fuck’.









Let Me Explain!!

Most people on twitter ( randomly click the links shot out by others. Usually it’s to a funny video or picture. You might even get to see some NSFW (not-safe-for-work) material i.e. coochie/boobies pictures sent out by others users by accident or even on purpose. I’m not mad at that, grown folks do grown things and if you see the disclaimer and you press it and see some shit you didn’t plan on seeing then SHAME ON YOU.

You were trying to see SOMETHING you had to be warned about…

But on this day…I saw way too much!

Little momma is about 4/5 years old and is dropping the ill verbiage like a Riker’s Island Inmate! This CHILD then goes on to describe things in words I haven’t heard since I stopped riding the trains with the dock workers. She’s is standing around talking to the camera with adults who burst out laughing as she goes on and on.

She starts talking about the police sending someone to jail “right motherf—ing now.” and keeps going for a minute and forty-five seconds while the adult videotaping busts out into hysterical laughter and knee-slapping.
A few more tastes of what they find so funny:

“I will slap your  a– to the motherf—ing ground.”

“What wrong wit’ you ho?”

“I get paid everyday from my daddy, b–ch.”

The kid is obviously playing it up because the adults are laughing. And I know that some people even think a little kid saying “a–” once or twice can be funny but talking about ho’s, slapping people down to the ground, and prostitution? Yeah? Really? 

Videos of kids behaving badly seems to be the new thing. Here are a few more; I’ll be here to help you pick your mouth up off the floor when you are done watching. Notice how most of these videos are taped by THE PARENTS. 

and this video of this Mother combing her daughters’ hair is just plain wrong. Note how the person filming this abuse is laughing like this shit is funny. America you be the judge!

I have a son and I was a son and I know kids pick up things; now more than every does t.v. and music influence the way children behave and talk. That’s all something to consider but I have to tell you that I would be locked UNDER the jail for child abuse had I OVERHEARD someone say THEY OVERHEARD my child outside behaving like this. Now you can take that how you want; I demand respect from my child! 

Cosby said it. Obama said it. I’m saying it. 

 If the questions is now “WHO’S  GONNA CHECK ME BOO?”
























I know you guys are with me on a mission to uplift and improve ourselves; but I don’t think the people who REALLY need to hear me are REALLY getting the point. Maybe the internet is too small of a place? Maybe I need to shout louder? Maybe I need to fall back? Maybe I need a SOAP BOX in Times Square? Maybe I need to mind my own business and only worry about me and mine. 

Fuck that……

Maybe I need to take my message to the streets? So who’s with me?

*Soap Box Chronicles*

airs Nov. 2009

Are you ready?


Until next time America!



Young M. Clayton



  1. Saw this on facebook yesterday, I was not amused. This is blatant child abuse. No chold should be exposed to that kind of filth that early in their development. What is she like in school? OMG! A lil terror I can imagine! The parents need parenting and the child needs childrearing from scratch! We need Men In Black to clean up on Aisle 5!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • When I saw this I had to speak on it.. thisis just plain wrong. As a parent as a Father I could never allow this type of behavior go down….. smh..WE have to do better!!!!

  2. This is sad…i’ve seen so many of these on facebook and they are all being recorded by an “adult” who thinks it’s funny. I don’t have any children but I have a niece (17) and 2 nephews (3,9) and I would slap all the taste out of their mouths if i heard them speak that way.

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  4. UNBELIEVABLE!!!! I am, for the first time in a long time, at a loss for words. I’m a single mom as you know and my children would never be allowed to behave this way. I wasn’t raised better than the girls in the video, BUT I raised my sons in the manner in which I wish I had been.

    I CAN”T WAIT FOR THE SoapBox Chronicles!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I already have the date marked. As always I love this post. I love the strength, determination and vision behind your mission. GO GETEM!!!! I’ll be your #1 fan 🙂


  5. As an educator and someone who has worked with children for quite some time, I would like to add this to the conversation. Often the greatest enemy of at risk children is the parents of those children and the adults in their lives. I fully realize that this little girl was playing to the camera, but you have at least two adults there encouraging the behavior. They need their behinds whupped. The parents or parent of this little girl needs to have their behinds whupped because obviously she picked up this foolishness somewhere.

    • Thank you sir, when I first saw these videoes I was highly upset, I wanted to track these parents and have them arrested myself. it’s a shame these so called parents encourage this type of Coonish behavior. I just wanted to shed light on a problem that is becoming prevelant in the black community!!!!

  6. Well Well Well Young… I must say, you keep coming w/ topics that definitley need attention and keeps my jaw on the ground. *2 thumbs up*

    • Thnaks sweetie I’m glad you enjoyed it.. just gets me tight to see parents acting like this… all I can do is just SMGDH!!!!

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