Venus vs. Mars

  Venus vs. Mars
venus vs mars 

 I know some of you must think that I stay in a perpetual angry mode. (I DO!) But I don’t. As a matter of fact, me and @tracyreneejones were trading who we thought were hot Twitter users when we got into the debate over whose list was hotter. (Mine!) I have some fabulous females that I follow; she says she has some great guys that she follows. Without a doubt I know I got me some dime pieces because I fucks with nothing less. So for the very first time in history, I present to you a double post; part two of which can be found at  Don’t feel tight if your name doesn’t appear here because this is only the beginning. I love the ladies, especially these women here: 

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@Tracyreneejones: (Tracey Renee Jones) Escapee from Jersey City, now living among ‘the good law-abiding white folks’ NJ– what can I say about Ms. Tracy Renee Jones, straight from “Chill Town” AKA Jersey City. Raw, brash, passionate and take no prisoners, Tracy is a Writer, Blogger, Model (she made me blush), Artist (digital and traditional mediums); Hip Hop Head (she goes in when it comes to music), Part-time Politician (B.A. In Political Science), Creative Content Consultant (her ideas are ill), Image and Branding Coach, and Ghostwriter (she swore me to secrecy). But this is only the tip of the iceberg. She is also a really good friend of mine who is willing to give a helping hand. Tracy is a bloggers dream, she host several websites including,, and Oh and did I mention that she is a co-producer of my show “The Soap Box Chronicles” so if you know like I know then you better follow her and get with the program. And try to stay on her good side, I can’t be responsible when she flips out on you.


















@Danamo: (Danyel Smith)- Brooklyn, NY– this next woman’s name is synonymous with “Vibe Magazine”, one of the Best hip-Hop publications of the 90’s & beyond. Danyel Smith is straight out of Oakland, CA; this journalist and author is truly Hip-Hop in every since of the word. Young, black, and educated, she has set the bar in establishing Hip-Hop as a culture. Her presence also proves that you can be a young, black & educated woman and still be highly respected in this male driven world of journalism. Writer Danyel Smith began writing about hip-hop music for magazines and newspapers in the late 1980s and early 1990s, just as the genre was beginning to take over mainstream music. Her writing career actually followed the trajectory of hip-hop; she went from writing record and concert reviews for San Francisco-Bay Area publications to moving to New York to take editorial positions at Billboard and the New York Times. As a fellow writer/journalist I really respect and admire her work in accurately & fairly depicting the sometimes-gritty world of Hip-Hop. Both cool and informative, she loves sharing great info and she always tweets me back which is why I really respect her as a person. If you want the definition of beauty & brains follow her on twitter and see what I’m talking about 












@AerialEllis (Aerial Ellis) – Nashville via Memphis, TN. She is a award-Winning PR Pro, Humble Servant, Grateful Heart, Alpha Female, Recovering Shoe Addict, Lifelong Learner, and Game Changer. This woman is informative, down to earth, and often helps motivates me behind the scenes. An up and coming superstar in the making her publicity company, Urbane Imagery, she gives back by working with non-profits and other Nashville small businesses. In addition she has also positioned media coverage in outlets including CNN, CBS, TV One, USA Today, NY Times, Ebony, Essence, Entrepreneur, Yahoo News, Sister 2 Sister, Upscale, Nashville Lifestyles and more. If you are looking a great public speaker or an image consultant then she is the one to call. In addition, she is an active member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Incorporated. (I love me some AkA’s) Aerial is true powerhouse in the Marketing & Advertising field. She has truly been a great help and mentor to me. She is a must follow. Find out more about Aerial Ellis here:      









@JesicaAngelique: (Jesica Angelique) Indianapolis, IN Beautiful, feisty, knowledgeable and not for the average Jaheem. Just my type of woman. Her quote says it all ” I’m selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.” — Marilyn Monroe. This woman keeps me sharp and on my toes, with her sharp tongue and even sharper mind. Jessica is a published author of two books “Raising a Black White Girl” and the “Road to Me”. She is a caring woman who always has children’s best interest at heart. She is a the champion of foster care rights, while working closely with organizations like: National CASA Association, National Foster Parent Association, and the Riley Hospital for Children in Indianapolis, Indiana. While preparing for my “Soap Box Chronicles” I frequently speak to Jessica and have excellent debates about various issues. Butting heads with Jessica, this has truly prepared me to take on the world and let my voice be heard. I thank her for that! I truly love her mind, body, and soul. And the fact that she is my #! Fan is a big plus for me (I WIN!). Fellas I wanna be stingy and keep her to myself but I gotta be real and share her with the rest of the world. You can see more of her on her site:  

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@Dreamhampton: Her Wiki page says that she’s a Hip Hop journalist but she is so much more. Her byline has been a part of my life since as far back as I can remember. Can you say the “The Source Magazine”? Always coming through as genuine and authentic; it was a blessing to have come across a writer talking about the music that I fell in love with who was a female but broke it down just as good (or better) than any dude. Her writing has appeared in The Village Voice, Spin, The Detroit News, Harper’s Bazaar, Essence, Parenting and other magazines. In addition, her essays and articles have appeared in several anthologies, including Rock She Wrote, The Vibe History of Hip-Hop and And It Don’t Stop: The Best American Hip-Hop Journalism of the Last 25 Years. Film production and co-authoring the Black Book with Jay-Z only solidifies her place in my heart and mind. Hampton’s short film I Am Ali was an official entry in the 2002 Sundance Film Festival and won the Jury Award at Vanity Fair’s Newport Beach Film Festival[2]. The former New York University film student was an associate producer and interviewer for VH1’s Emmy Award-winning Behind The Music: The Notorious B.I.G.. [1] Hampton co-produced Bigger Than Life (Image Entertainment, 2007), the first feature-length documentary on Notorious B.I.G.’s life. Fellas and the best thing about her is that she so down to earth & totally approachable. So follow the leader and follow her here:    














@CandiceNicolePr (Candice Nicole) – DMV (DC, MD, VA) if you are an artist in the DMV area and you are looking for a great publicist/mover and shaker. Chances are you have crossed her path. Because she is truly the gatekeeper to music industry in the DMV area. I respect and lover her work ethic, and drive. She is always grinding and I love that about her. Whether it’s running her company Owner/Publicist, Candice Nicole PR, working as a PR Consultant, Elite DC Magazine or making R&B Live DC one of the must see spots in DC Candice handles her business. Her drive has even landed her on the 60 PR Experts to Follow on Twitter list. Proven she is one of the best at her job. Get a little closer with Candice here:   














 @Vanessaveasley – (Vanessa Veasley) Philly via LA. Fellas do me a favor close your eyes and think about the infamous “Lil Kim” poster that you had on your wall in college. You got that image in your head? Now imagine that body with a even prettier face, and most of all she is uber intelligent. Now open your eyes and let me introduce you to Vanessa Veasley. I have never seen anyone work in any industry where all they (media) care about is you having a big but, nice breast, and a smile with such intelligence and grace. She works hard at letting people know that she is an educated beauty (BA. In public Relations) and she does not let you forget that she is set on becoming the next (sexier) Oprah. You probably have seen her on several videos & magazine covers such as: Showcase and SHOW Black Lingerie magazines, Lowrider Girls SMOOTH Girl, XXL, Urban Ink, Hip-Hop Connection (a UK magazine), KING, Modified, SMOOTH and Hawaiian Tropic competitions. Videos: Kanye West “Amazing”, Willie Northpole feat. Bobby Valentino #1 Side Chick, Lil Wayne “Lollipop” and several other videos. There are a few females that I may occasionally lose it over and she is one of them. Fellas don’t worry you can thank me later for me putting you on to this great piece of “Eye Candy”but don’t let the beauty fool you. She is intelligent and grounded so if you come at her come correct. Oh and she tweets me back owww! Find out more about her   











 @Stylescrybe- (Fessa pronounced Fee –sha) Jersey City/ Atlanta/ NY. Writer/ Blogger/ PR consultant. Experienced in fashion styling and entertainment journalism this HBCU alum is also a mechanical bull rider. She is my homegirl from across the water. This tall beautiful shoe goddess is a skilled PR consultant, who loves fashion & shoes. Her shoe game is unmatched and her knowledge of all things couture is tremendous. I first met Fessa almost a year ago and we have been friends ever since. Her style & vision can be seen here She is currently doing PR work for the NY JETS linebacker Orlando Pace and a couple of other well-know clients. Fellas what I love about her is that she is cool as a fan, and she stays dressed to the nines. Watch out for her she is definitely on the come up!  











 @TheonlyTFG Chicago/NY– Beautiful, Opinionated, and has an excellent entertainment blog. Yup I’m talking about “The Only Fly Girl” she is so fly I don’t even know her real name. (Real Talk). After a successful career within the film and television industry, THEflyGIRL decided it was time to try something new. So she came up with her own website designed to reflect her own personal style, while educating people on how and what it takes to be fly! She is truly one of the best at her job and I frequently check her site for the most accurate entertainment news. (Note I said accurate) TFG prides herself on breaking stories and giving you the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth. And if you claim that you are fly, them she will call you out if you’re not. I love that about her. TFG also is a Blogger for, and TFG has a great twitter timeline. See more of her over that way =====> Fellas now you know I will never steer you wrong TFG has the Greatest smile in the world and yeah SHE IS FLY!        

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@Melamachinko- Brooklyn, NY  Mela Machinko This my #1 Soul Sister this Brooklyn bombshell/former back up singer turned solo artist, sheds her soul through her music, and cool blog: This sweet yet feisty Soul Sister keeps me highly entertained with her random tweets and commentary about her everyday life. This is a sister that you need to know. If you love the Jill Scott, Angie Stone, Ledisi, then you will love Mela Machinko. But don’t take my word for it see for yourself: Mela Machinko & Pharaoh Munch and Mela with Talib Kweli Featuring MeLa Machinko “Hostile Gospel pt1            

So now that I pointed out the type of women you should be paying attention to I am expecting you to act accordingly. Respect them for who they are and what they have accomplished. Every King needs an appropriate Queen so when you step to them, tell um Young M. Clayton sent you!Eddie%20Murphy                 


Young M. Clayton                                                  



  1. Social comments and analytics for this post…

    This post was mentioned on Twitter by Melamachinko: I made @YoungMClayton’s blog list of dope twitter women to follow- How awesome is that? *blushes*…

  2. You’re the bomb dot com for this one. It’s an honor!

    • I got you. I just wanted people to see all of the wonder stuff that you do.. you are good peeps, I’m truly glad to have met you.

  3. Excellent! Wonderfully & eloquently written as always! Thank you for showcasing the talents of such amazing women! AWESOMENESS!

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